If unsolicited advice was effective at helping people, the world would have NO problems at all. 😉 And every teenager would be wise and make great decisions 🤪
Unsolicited advice is not effective because people don’t change unless they want to and are open to changing.
As a professional coach for more than a decade, I can attest to this. 🤓 As a parent of four boys, I can attest to this. 😂 As a husband to a Taurus wife, I can attest to this. 😜
But what can we do if we see someone that we think we can help, but who is not asking for help?
Start here - LOVE THEM.
To Love someone, we must SEE them first; their Loving Essence. Beyond their personality. Beyond their past. Beyond our relationship with them.
See them as a free Child of the Divine; created in the image and likeness of their creator - Perfect, Whole, and Complete.
This can be hard AF sometimes!
They might be an alcoholic, or a shitty driver, or they might be making chronically terrible decisions against their self-interest. They might not show up for you the way you want them to.
Are you willing (and this takes courage sometimes) to see, with the Heart, beyond all of these things to the Truth of Who they are?
Consider asking: How can I be of service to this person for the Highest Good?
Then listen. The Voice for Love will inform you.
Maybe you do nothing but affirm who they are in your mind.
Maybe you just listen deeply to them with compassion and seek to understand them.
Maybe you are directed to take action.
Maybe you are guided to say something to them.
We dive deeper into this in our Revelation Breathwork Facilitator Training. For it is a critical element in healing work.
If you want to serve others, if you want to create a space for Healing, if you want to step into your abilities as a healer, you must understand and integrate this teaching.
To learn more about our #breathworktraining
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