@the.holistic.psychologist thank you for powerful post ❤️🙏
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I am an advocate for conscious patenting for a reason: children do what they’re modeled, not what they are taught. Children learn relationship dynamics, self-care, financial tendencies, the relationship they have with their bodies, and boundaries from what they see acted out in front of them.
I write the same comment back countless times ‘heal yourself, heal your child.’ This is how we create adults who are self reliant, confident, and emotionally mature. Rather than insecure, wounded adults, with fragile egos. Without re-parenting ourselves, we’ll subconsciously repeat the same cycle.
A mother who awakens to her own subconscious, becomes aware of her pattern thoughts, and behaviors. This is the greatest gift she can give her child. By healing her emotional wounds, she forgives her own mother and ends the cycle of generational trauma. A man who does the same, doesn’t need to verbally teach his daughter who to ‘pick’ as her partner. He’s her living example. Her internal compass. She’ll be drawn to the same traits in a partner. Children raised by conscious parents don’t watch adults betray themselves. They can say no. They have connection to intuition and therefore they’re secure in who they are.
It’s not what you say, it’s what you do.
Parents, know this: you did what you could with your level of consciousness at that time. I have nothing but gratitude for the reality that my parents passed on their own traumas. How could I teach this importance if I did not fully understand how deeply their patterns lived within me? Purpose in all experiences.
Forgive yourself. We’re evolving as a collective, together.
We change this world by doing the inner work. By having the courage to go into the darkness and pain that most people spend their entire lives distracting themselves from.
Until we do this work we are walking projections of the pain and fear we’ve carried our entire lives. The world becomes a daily battlefield. Just as it is within our minds and hearts.
Healing is possible to everyone. At any time, at any age #selfhealers #family