Datenight! Table for 1.
I asked my soul what it wanted today after a morning of work and cleaning... It whispered, I want a date by the beach!
And she meant it!
So packed a hat and drink, journal and blanket and threw on a sexy summer dress.
Blasted some music in the car to get me in the mood.
And had the time of my life.
I'm a Lover.
There's no denying it.
I loooooove Love.
Giving it, oozing it, indulging in it, making it, writing, singing and daydreaming about it, even romanticising it.
There is nothing like the softness of my child's skin, the spark of a lightening kiss on my lips or the heartswell that occurs when I have connected deeply with another Soul friend.
However, for much of my life, love always only showed up for me in OTHER-ing.
It required someone ELSE to catch the ball, someone ELSE to lead the tango, someone ELSE to balance the see-saw of my worth.
And there is frankly nothing, nada, zilch that replaces THAT. Connection is wired so deeply into the cellular makeup of humanity that we wither and die without it.
And yet, I have found that, like a recipe for my favourite dish, the order of ingredients makes a huge difference.
If I come to love with another and I am barren within, I show up with an energy of desperation and fear, suffocating the flow of reciprocity that wants to flow like a waterfall, unconstrained and relaxed.
If I come to love filled with my own Life Force Vitality, awakened to my own worthiness and turned on by my own sense of aliveness, I show up with an energy of exuberance and magnetism. And love can't resist my offer to dance in musical ecstacy.
Taking time to date myself.
To romance myself.
To get curious about myself.
To wink at my reflection in the mirror and flirt with the Goddess within has shifted how I show up.
Neediness replaced by confidence.
Desire displaced by radiance.
Grasping succeeded by honouring.
Create space to fall madly in love with you.
Trust me. You're the One.
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